Ep 34 | Why lightening the mental load is worth it (even when it doesn’t feel like it)
In this episode, I dive into why it’s so worth investing in lightening your mental load—even when it doesn’t feel worth it.
The struggle of sharing the mental load and feeling like no one else 'gets it.'
You think your family should instinctively understand the dynamics—the nitty-gritty details that make your household run. You assume your partner should just 'know.' When they don’t, it can feel frustrating, and you might think, "Why bother trying to lighten my mental load?"
It's easy to believe that if your partner doesn't instinctively know what's going on, then it's not worth the effort. But think again—inviting the possibility of shared mental load can pave the way for more ease, joy, and a fulfilling partnership.
It's this very conundrum that inspired today’s episode.
In this episode you will learn
- How to invite your family into your meticulously organised (albeit, overloaded) mental space without expecting them to be mind-readers.
- How voicing your needs and concerns invites your partner into your world, offering them a chance to contribute in meaningful ways.
- How to reframe frustrating situations where your family may not ‘get it’ as an opportunity to communicate more.
- Why investing time in communicating the 'small things' is a long-term win for everyone involved.
You’ll leave this episode with actionable steps to initiate these critical conversations, and lighten your mental load effectively…because it is worth it. Inviting shared responsibility into your life can pave the way for more ease, joy, and a fulfilling partnership with those you love.
Ready to embark on this journey but feeling a bit lost? Reach out to me and learn more about the offload practice!
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